If you are looking for a strict master I may be able to help.
I'm 55, live in Toronto and have plenty of experience. I believe in strict discipline for submissives and am strongly of the opinion that the best way to enforce it is with a good spanking when necessary.
If you want to play on the edge where pain and pleasure merge and where you will be drawn to give up body and mind to another I can help. I respect pre agreed limits (of course) but I am demanding and you can expect your body to be used for my pleasure and anticipate that skittishness or disobedience will result in a memorably sore bottom.